Velvet Blazer & Velvet Booties: Style Is What You Do With It

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Fashion, or more accurately style, is a very personal thing…

THE STORY

…It’s a statement to the world in regard to who we are, how we feel and what we think. And it can change with the wind.

“Fashion is what you buy. Style is what you do with it.”

I can go from full-on boho queen to all business in the blink of the eye. With the change of an outfit I can try on a new persona, highlight a particular aspect of my personality or if absolutely necessary camouflage myself to blend in with the crowd. Mind you, that last bit doesn’t happen often, like I said, I only blend in if necessary…think funerals, parent meetings at work…anywhere that rules and common courtesy dictate my fashion choices.

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If I’m in a slump style-wise I’ll sometimes turn to Instagram or Pinterest for inspiration and ideas. The key words are “inspiration” and “ideas”. When I find a look that speaks to me, I interpret it as my own; I don’t copy the look, I use it to build a look that is 100% me and expresses an aspect of who I am.

One of the primary reasons that I started this blog was to inspire other women in regard to personal style. Not to dress like me, but to dress like themselves; to dress in a way that expresses who they truly are; to share their individuality with the world and to feel like their most authentic selves in whatever they choose to wear. The only rule there is in regard to style is to wear what is right for you, what makes you happy, what makes you feel beautiful on any given day.

The beauty of fashion is, is that what works for me, doesn’t necessarily work for you and that is perfectly fine. For example, my undying allegiance to shredded jeans is no secret, but I know that they definitely aren’t for everyone. And that’s okay, because like I said, style is a very personal thing.

Oftentimes it’s all in the styling. You and I might have the very same dress in our closets and absolutely love said dress. However I might style it and look like I’m headed out for a night of rock and roll and debauchery while you might appear as if you would be at home at a church social…and that’s what makes it all so much fun. It’s like the grownup version of playing dress up. There truly is no wrong interpretation when it comes to fashion and style…there is only your interpretation and that’s the only one that matters.

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THE OUTFIT

This month’s Ageless Style Link Up theme is Jodie’s brainchild. Since her birthday is this month she thought it would be fun for all of us to dress up for her “Cocktail Birthday Party”. Just so we’re clear here, I’ve never been to a cocktail party in my life. Where I come from it’s more of a “cooler full of beer in the yard” sort of environment as opposed to cocktail parties so I put my own spin on the theme and interpreted it to fit my style.

The black velvet ruffled skirt and sparkly socks that I wore to see The Nutcracker a few years ago would maybe be more cocktail party appropriate, however I felt that adding a hefty dose of velvet to my black skinny jeans via my velvet blazer and velvet booties would also do the trick…think cocktail party casual…like business casual, but way more fun.

This luscious paisley velvet blazer is actually part of a suit that I got almost two years ago. As luck would have it, my friends Jennie from A Pocketful Of Polka Dots and Sheela from Sheela Goh both had the same suit so we did a fun collaboration featuring different ways to style it. As you can see, the blazer works just as well on it’s own (as do the pants) and makes just about anything I pair it with just that much more special.

The same goes for the bright pink velvet booties. I’m pretty sure I could pair them with a burlap sack and they would make it look fabulous. They particularly stand out with my black skinny jeans while highlighting the hint of pink in the blazer. The nice thing about black jeans is that they’re super easy to dress up because, well, they’re black…black jeans, in my opinion, are the elevated version of denim and can work for a variety of occasions depending upon what you pair them with.

Finally, the sweater. I currently own it in five colors so obviously I love it. It runs big so it’s perfect for an off the shoulder look. The nice thing is though, the neckline isn’t cut so wide that it can’t be worn on the shoulder as well. It’s a nice lightweight knit and it’s perfect for wearing to work, casually with leggings or dressed up like I styled it here.

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THE TIP

Velvet is an easy way to elevate any look for day or night. It’s such a rich luxe fabric that it can’t help but dress up just about anything you pair it with. The nice thing is you can add it in so many ways; you can find literally anything in velvet from socks to shoes/boots and clutches. If you want to go big, choose a velvet skirt, pants, a top or cami, a dress, kimono or blazer/jacket…the possibilities are endless.

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THE LINKUPS

Check out the weekly link ups I participate in for even more fashion and style ideas… BE SURE TO SCROLL DOWN AND LINK UP WITH MYSELF AND MY LOVELY CO-HOSTS FOR THIS MONTHS AGELESS STYLE LINK UP!!

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Blazer: Similar; Sweater: Amazon; Jeans: American Eagle; Boots: Similar

Daenel ~ Living outside the stacks blog, instagram, pinterest, twitter

Debbie ~ Fashion Fairy Dust bloglovin, blog, instagram, pinterest, facebook, twitter

Jennie ~ A Pocketful of Polka Dots blog, instagram, facebook, pinterest, twitter, bloglovin

Jodie ~ Jodie’s Touch of Style blog, facebook, instagram, pinterest, bloglovin, twitter

Julia ~ When the Girls Rule blog, facebook, instagram, pinterest,

Kellyann ~ This Blonde’s Shopping Bag blog, instagram, bloglovin, twitter

Lisa ~ Coast to Coast blog, facebook, instagram, twitter, pinterest

Paula ~ Dimples on my What blog, facebook, pinterest, instagram, twitter

Shelly ~ The Queen in Between blog, instagram, bloglovin, pinterest, facebook

Shugunna~ Nzuri N* Simplicity blog, instagram, pinterest

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Nancy
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I always have to laugh when you talk about your family and earlier years. Not that it is something to laugh about, but I can hear you dat it, how you say it. You and I are so much a like,on the inside. I can relatie with so many things, it s funny. But about the outfit, that is the fun thing about working with other bloggers. To see how different women interpretate a theme!

Laurie
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This velvet jacket with all these beautiful colours. You are certainly inspiring Debbie. You clever play with colour is amazing xx

Kellyann Rohr
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I love that velvet blazer! I have been looking for one this year but have yet to find the perfect one at a decent price. This one is soooooo good!
xo,
Kellyann

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I cannot even express how much I love this outfit and this message! Brilliant all the way!

Shelbee
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Paula Holloway
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Well, Debbie, we didn’t dress alike but we’re both talking about fashion being a representation of our personality. Honestly, we’re in each others heads. 😉

I’m loving the velvet blazer and may need to find one sooner rather than later.

Hugs,
Paula

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Ooh, girl! This look is so great! The velvet, the rich colors, all of it.

And it IS amazing how two different people can take the exact same item(s) and create totally different looks! That’s what makes the world go round.

Is it? What am I thinking of…? SOMETHING makes the world go round! May as well be this!

xoxo Bettye

jodie filogomo
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jodie filogomo

First..you made me totally laugh with the cooler full of beer in the yard comment. Granted we don’t really do cocktail parties either, but that’s the fun in playing dress up!! LOL!!
And don’t you just love that both you and Jennie wore the same blazer. Talk about great minds thinking alike.
XOOX
Jodie

Jill
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I always love seeing how someone takes the same piece you have and styles it completely different! That’s what makes our individual style unique! Your blazer is gorgeous! This is such a fabulous look!

Jill - Doused in Pink

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style is so much more fun than fashion. I love the fact that we have many of the same and similar pieces yet can wear them so differently. Style is how you wear not what you wear

Shelly
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Adore this velvet blazer on you! Thanks for sharing so many options…I think I need one.

mireille
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mireille

It’s been fun to see what each of you chose as your outfits!
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Kimberly F. Malkiewicz
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The “style your way” is not lost on me. I love the velvet look and will have to keep my open for something that’s workable for “my” style ;).

Elise
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Elise

I love all of this velvet! Beautiful booties and blazer, all of your picks are fabulous too!

xx, Elise
http://www.sparkleandslippers.blogspot.com

Ruth Josey
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Ruth Josey

I am dying for a velvet blazer! I’m just going to have to break down and buy one. Yours is gorgeous and I love the way you’ve layered - from your fancy bra strap to your shirt to the blazer. The boots are just awesome! I, myself, am more of a wine on the back porch or a beer in the neighbor’s garage kinda gal, but I do love to play dress-up, myself, and I totally get what you’re saying about style! Great job with this one!

Ruth
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I really had to smile that we both chose to style our matching velvet blazers for this month’s post. 🙂 It was particularly apropos you were talking about taking things and styling them to let our own individuality show through because we certainly did that! You have me now considering I have never styled my blazer with pink, so that must happen soon. Oh, and I was also truly admiring your pink hair. Makes me already miss mine, but my hair seriously needed a break. 🙁

Nicole of High Latitude Style
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There is something fascinating about velvet. This velvet blazer is a great find and the red velvet booties are perfect with this look. Thanks for linking up to the Top of the World Style linkup party

jess jannenga
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jess jannenga

Love the post and totally relate, as I am a closehorse but really my style depends on my mood- plaid suit one day, floral dress another.. It should be fun! 🙂 I wish I would have bought that gorgeous blazer from Loft you and Jennie have! Looks fab on you with pink and your velvet booties!